My favorite way to make my husband submit to me sexually was bringing in a skilled stud and make him suck cock and take it in the ass. I had a guy friend with a big cock that voluntarily participated with us, even though he was married. His wife didn’t want to watch but I would take her to bed afterwards. He fucked my husband bare back, leaving a huge deposit of semen so that I didn’t need lubricant when I fucked his ass with my strap on.